Hi Jan and thanks for your note. Nope, not showing up on the SS Death Index and it's NY so it's not going to be easy. She is not from the town where she is buried, either :(
This is driving me crazy! If you think you can help me, I would owe you - maybe I'm missing something myself since I've looked at it 100 times. Her name is Lillian Ibele (no birthdate) but she died 13 Dec 1961 and is buried in All Faith's Lutheran Cemetery, Middle Village, Queens, NY.
Many thanks again--Barbie